List the top 5 to 10 things that you do almost every day that help you
to be successful. They can be anything at all, but they have to be
things that you do at least 4 or 5 times every week. Anything less than
that may be a hobby that helps you out, but we are after the real day
in and day out habits that help you to be successful.
This is momentous; one because this is my first opportunity to have been tagged by someone, which shows that there are definitely people out there at least hearing what I am saying (a very cool feeling); and two because my wife and I often talk about what we need to do to become the people we promised each other we’d be when we made the big decision to create a life together. So, without further ado, here is my short list:
1. When discussing something, realize that I might know what the “last word” might be, but be brave enough and wise enough not to say it.
2. Read much more than I write.
3. Earn your showers: this sounds foul, but it refers to the fact that there must be some part of a day that is dedicated to physical activity.
4. Get down on my hands and knees and play whatever my two-year old tells me to.
5. Smile when I am not expected to.
6. Make light of stressful situations at work, because it does not have to define us.
7. Make lists, and complete them religiously.
8. Play with new ideas.
9. Set aside time that is dedicated to making me a better member of my family.
Those that I tag follow below.
- Brad Davis
- Bing Miller (whom I share a common, yet heretofore unknown, alma mater with–go ‘Cuse)
- Barry Bachenmeier
- Barbara Barreda
Success is a interesting word, and Carolyn phrases it perfectly when she says that implying that its opposite is failure is a sketchy thing. Success to me is such a personal decision, meaning that when you decide to be a success and when you decide that you are a success, depends solely on your readiness and your definitions. External definitions of success place such undue stress on us, but are often what derail us as we move through life. Have you ever reached a measurable level of success and felt unfulfilled? For me, it was receiving my master’s degree. When I finished it, I remember feeling that nothing had really changed, that, yes, I had worked hard to achieve this, but it wasn’t as momentous to me as it was to say, my mother.
What I had in mind at the time, and still today, involves much more than that. I had decided that my success depended less on that degree, and more on my actions after that degree.